Self confidence

Entreaty For Our Time

Progress or regress? Life got too busy, too chaotic; too much. Leaders reduced to power mongering, workers stressed beyond human limits, families stretched beyond patience and love, children over-scheduled and burdened into obesity, depression even suicide. The richest in the world lived high and kept it to themselves while the poorest died in the streets. Religious leaders abused their flocks, organized religion crumbled. Human sensibility dimmed and the earth suffered.

Modern day, or pre-1789 France? Were we actually in the best of times? Are we in the worst of times, yet? Yes and no, no and yes. From nearly the beginning of recorded time, there is evidence of gain and loss, strength and weakness, hubris and humility. Will there ever be a time in human history when this is not so? Perhaps, if in the future humans become genetically integrated with robotic circuits that dull emotions and create a false sense of ‘stable’ mental outlook. Until that time, with incalculable passion we rail, we cry, we shout and fight, we laugh and we love. Until that time, we emote from the deepest place of power we were given, the Soul.

What is it that is happening in the world today? Is it an ‘unseen foe,’ lack of preparation and selfish leadership by those in power or a long, slow decline of concern about humanity and the earth? Looking for an enemy is the human response, blaming others for everything is the go-to for most; it always has been. ‘Not my fault’ becomes ‘not my problem’ and as such, Soul-the greatest concern of all that is-suffers and goes in deep, down into the darkest recesses of consciousness. When the Soul is shuddering and shuttered, the human vessel is then permitted to live as it wants, in self-orientation, with total lack of consideration for ‘other’ or for the greater good of humanity and of our earth. And darkness reigns. Then, sadness, depression, despair, anxiety and fear propel up, out and swirl around each human and throughout the universe.

But there is light

If you can catch your breath, if you can stretch out your body and quiet your mind for just a moment, if you can clear your head, open your eyes, then you can see the beauty still around you. Look for it. It’s in the earth that our Mother renews annually in spring, buds sprouting through the cold earth. It’s in the human race that the Divine deems worthy to continue no matter what, babies still being born. You see it in the stories of the mundane, of one person reaching out to another; of a child’s delight, of an elder sharing wisdom gleaned and gained with a younger. Of humans connecting over the internet checking in with relationships formerly forgotten or neglected. 

You see it in a city cheering on the heroes on the front line of today, in the suburbs where neighbors out walking see, as if for a first-time, other neighbors. You see it in women paying their stylists and cleaners now for future visits that may not happen. You see it in tens of thousands of workers volunteering their skills to help and support others. You see it in the water in Venice, clear and blue for the first time in generations. You see it in severely reduced emissions and pollution. The earth, renewing; humanity responding.

An entreaty for all time

Ask yourself the still-relevant age-old entreaty first put to us two thousand years ago: “If I am not for myself, who will be for me?” (on self-care, putting on your oxygen mask first) and then: “If I am only for myself, what am I? And if not now, when?” (on consideration of humanity and taking action). [Rabbi Hillel, c. 110 BCE–10 CE]

The follow-up question to consider, the entreaty for our time is this: “Who do I want to be and how do I want to be; what can I do?” This simple question asked over and over by humans throughout the world can help turn on the light that dispels darkness. It is the ultimate control, in your control. Each and every one taking personal responsibility for humanity and the earth. Activating your brain by asking this simple question, activating your heart by taking action will fuel your Soul’s Rise. As Soul rises, growing light will dispel the darkness. Start with loving your self more, move quickly from self to other, love others without judgment, find faith and community that supports and you will feel rejoined with humanity; being the light that is needed in our time.

 

Susan Lowenthal Axelrod is a momma, writer, coach, and speaker showing by example that truly anyone can lead today. Take the reins of your own life and act, now and lead others to the light. www.whatwillyourlegacybe.com | susan@confide

 

I am Enough

But am I? Am I enough? How can I believe this when others appear to be doing so much more, accomplishing so much more, earning so much more? I torture myself; thoughts racing through my consciousness, asking but knowing, deep down. “No, you are not.” If you were, you would be getting more ‘right,’ accomplishing more, having wider impact, earning more money, and be more well-known. Abject misery creeps in, landing in the recesses of the mind. I breathe.

Am I a fraud, then? Do I not tell my clients and others that ‘more’ for the sake of More is not better? Am I being disingenuous when I proclaim that ‘deeper’ is better? Is it not true, then, that we need people to go deeper? Each one of us, in our own way, in whatever area sparks imagination and interest; each has the opportunity to drill down below the surface, below the façade of our lives. To get to the core, the deepest place of desire, the soul. To the place of personal soul-connectedness that generates personal authenticity. The authenticity that creates ‘enough-ness,’ the state of mind that repairs our state of being. And, is it not incumbent, now more than ever, to be in a repaired state of being?

The answer is Yes! Yes, to all! Yes, it is incumbent for each and every soul on earth to go deep, deeper still, to seek and find the core. To breathe and love and repair the cracks and the very sinew that runs through and holds together the body; to find your place of enough-ness. Be brave! Scratch your surface, find a crack, allow light to shine in. Do not be afraid of the light. Just allow the light to shine through, go deep and seep in. The only thing that will happen is that there will be light there! There will be light in your darkness if you allow it. Then, it is there in that place of repair, of healing that you can step out and shine. And in that light, you can know, you are enough.

Let us each take whatever responsibility we need to in order to claim enough-ness, to feel enough, to really know we are enough so that we can be the ‘more’ we seek. What, then, will you do with your enough-ness? What will you share, what light will you then shed for others, to light their way? Get clear, get confident, stand in your light; shine and lead. Our world needs you to feel enough, to be enough and to shine your personal light of impact.

Whose Alien Body Is This?

Why do we hate on our bodies so much? This article is about the realization and epiphany of why I want to be grateful for the body I have, aging though it may be! Our bodies support our every waking moment! Maybe we could be grateful for what we have and stop wishing for something else; #bodylove.

How Does This Serve Me?

Is it all about me? Well, sort of, yeah….because if you feel safe, secure, happy, calm, excited and ready to take on life, then that feeling exudes out and leaps onto others. …and the opposite is true! So figure out how to get into a great personal space by asking ‘how does this serve me’ and watch life grow immeasurably better!